Bailing was once a useful skill. When a partner was thoughtless, too clueless or just too damn dull, I didn’t hesitate to say, “I’m out.” I’d rather leave first than be hurt.
I Had To Get Over Codependency To Learn To Fight With My Partner In a Productive Way -- This Is How We Did It
Slowly we began to build a set of skills necessary to fight well, so that the fighting wasn't about knocking one another down.
All I remember is going up to one of the protestors, grabbing her sign and smashing it under my foot, and screaming, "GIVE ME YOUR UTERUS, YOU DON'T DESERVE IT!"