YOU ARE THE ADVICE COLUMNIST: My Ex's New Girlfriend Is Harassing Me

I really don't know what to do and now I constantly feel unsafe both at my workplace and at my home.

Mar 14, 2014 at 6:30pm | Leave a comment

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So I had been seeing a coworker for a while and it turns out there was an overlap between our relationship and that of his ex-girlfriend. The girlfriend found this out and has been leaving me harassing text messages and voicemails and calling me at all hours of the night from restricted numbers. Although I have blocked both her and her boyfriend's phone numbers, she has been finding other means to contact me. She showed up at my workplace the other day and stood in the back of the room and stared at me before leaving, I don't want to have to get my supervisors to intervene, but I really don't know what to do and now I constantly feel unsafe both at my workplace and at my home. It also doesn't help that my phone is always going off and I have to listen to voicemails belittling my character and my sexuality. Please help!

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