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I'm uncomfortable with it, and I feel like it should be off limits.
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I'm uncomfortable with it, and I feel like it should be off limits.
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How do I tell my friend (and roommate) she can't have a threesome with a guy I used to sleep with and his girlfriend? I was never attracted to said guy, but I slept with him -- at the time a good friend -- for a few months. They flirt with her blatantly, and have propositioned her for a threesome. Since this guy and his girlfriend started dating, he makes no effort to talk to me or hang out with me. Meanwhile, they worship my best friend, and are incessantly flirting with her. I'm uncomfortable with it, and I feel like it should be off limits. Even if she just goes home with them and cuddles, it still enrages me. She thrives on this kind of attention, whether she acts on it or not. I'm feeling angry and betrayed -- but do I have a right to be?

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