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I love him and I can see us being together because our connection is strong but I want the sex to be better.
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I love him and I can see us being together because our connection is strong but I want the sex to be better.
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My boyfriend and I have been together going on three months. I am 24 and lost my virginity to him. Being with him was beautiful but his penis is 5 inches. I've been doing the research to see what positions are best for deeper penetration so I can actually feel something. I want to cum and have a orgasm. The only time I do is when he eats me out but I'd actually love to have sex and not only foreplay. To top it off I want him to be in control and be more rough and not gentle all the time. I send texts to kind of give him the idea -- "the next time I see you you're going to be a little devil" or  "cuddling and kisses are nice but next time you could just rip my clothes off and have your way with me" -- but it always comes to being soft.

I love him and I can see us being together because our connection is strong but I want the sex to be better. I am not sure where to start to tell him how I want it because I want him to be happy as well. 

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