ask a sex therapist
Here, seven manageable steps you can take to help preserve some semblance of your sexuality while trying to manage your depression.
I didn't even know how to respond, so I blocked him. Now I wish I hadn't because I have SO MUCH to say.
My number has zero bearing on who I am as person, nor does it suggest anything about my morals.
Am I playing games or just trying to protect myself? Probably a little of both.
In the past, I've done every style from earnest to funny to sexy. Now I'm turning to you.
you are the advice columnist
dating advice
Being eliminated from "The Bachelor" is life-changing in a “What the hell was I thinking?” kind of way.
There’s a tendency to think of us as semi-mythical creatures who only come out at night and who don’t exist in the prosaic humdrum world of everyday life.
childhood crushes
In another century there'd be a name for my mom, and that name would be "procurer."
The only attention we get from men we don’t already know is almost always from guys that were not getting laid in college, the ones who wouldn’t dare leave the house in leather pants. And that’s just fine with me.
dating casually
I felt like King Midas hoarding gold. I didn’t want to give anyone up. Each man had a unique quality.
bad kissers
There’s no gentle way that I know of to tell someone, “Damn, bro, you kiss real bad! What’s that even about?”
sex talk
You can’t control the universe and hide erotic stuff from your child, but you can talk to her about sex when she’s little.
one night stands
In 2003, 63% of sexually active teens were busting out the love glove for sexytimes. Last year, only 59% did.
internet dating
ask a sex therapist
Asking for what you want in the bedroom seems like it should be so easy, yet many of us struggle with actually opening our mouths and letting the words out.
childhood crushes
Punching someone into an unconscious state and wanting to mount them for a rigorous session of dry humping are basically the same feelings, I guess.
friends with benefits
Rocco was my fake boyfriend; he served all the same functions that a real boyfriend would, minus the commitment.
casual sex
I love sex. It’s fun. And because I love you, my daughter, I want you to have the same delights in life that I do.
Let me be clear: We weren’t sleeping together. I mean, we were sleeping together, but we weren’t having sex.