Virginity - xoJane

It Happened To Me: I'm A 22-Year Old Christian Virgin And I'm Saving Myself for Marriage

Abby Carney — Fri, 17 May 2013 14:00:00 -0400

Am I crazy? Repressed? Am I brainwashed with legalistic doctrine that I was force fed my whole life? Actually, no.

It Happened To Me: I Ended Up In Bed With A 27-Year-Old Virgin

Anonymous — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 15:00:00 -0400

He waited until he was putting on a condom to inform me that he’d “never done this before.”

It Happened To Me Contest Entry: I'm Married To A Virgin

IHTM CONTESTANT — Thu, 24 Jan 2013 10:00:00 -0500

You may be thinking, "So what? You married a virgin?" That’s not what I mean. My husband was a virgin when we got married almost a year ago and still is.

I'm a 31-Year-Old Virgin Who's Never Been Kissed, and My Disability Isn't Holding Me Back, It's My Fear

Melissa Blake — Fri, 23 Nov 2012 15:00:00 -0500

I have finally heard from the man of my dreams, but my nervousness -- not my disability -- is holding me back from making my dream of a first kiss come true.

It Happened to Me: I Married A Virgin

Alissa Henry — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 15:00:22 -0400

By the time I met my husband, I was one bad experience away from committing to a convent. Therefore, his admission that he was waiting until marriage to have sex was odd, but refreshing for me.

It Happened To Me: I Lost My Virginity at 30

Anonymous — Mon, 07 May 2012 11:00:25 -0400

Not only was I a virgin, but was a virgin who had never given or received oral sex, never been fingered, and never had my boobs touched under my shirt.

Why Your Hymen Isn't Going Anywhere

Sarah Woolley — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 11:00:27 -0400

You’ve got a better chance of figuring out if someone’s had sex or not by looking at their knees.

Hey, What Was the Second Time You Had Sex Like?

Noah — Thu, 01 Mar 2012 13:00:15 -0500

The second time, you were a little more confident, a little more adventurous, and a lot more capable of processing your surroundings and committing them to memory.

"Breaking Dawn" Sends the Wrong Message to Virgins

Helena — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 11:00:10 -0500

The idea that losing the big V is 1) super easy and not painful or 2) painful to the point of being abusive but you love him so don't worry about, is troubling. Yes, teen girls, this is love!