Infidelity - xoJane

It Happened To Me: I Met my Boyfriend On Ashley Madison

Andi Chinaski — Thu, 16 May 2013 11:00:00 -0400

Since the quest for a conventional relationship was clearly not working out for me, I decided in a moment of low self-worth, that I was going to actively seek out married men.

It Happened To Me: I'm Tormenting My Ex's New Girlfriend On Social Media

Alejandra Meza — Mon, 13 May 2013 13:00:00 -0400

As I tried to understand his actions, I went on a rampage against the girl. I just wanted to make her pay.

UNPOPULAR OPINION: I'm The Woman Who Slept With Your Husband (And I'm Not Sorry)

Noemi — Thu, 09 May 2013 12:30:00 -0400

I wasn’t cheating on you, I was cheating on a system which is fake and outdated.

My LIfe Was Once Devastated by Infidelity and I Still Don't Believe in Blaming the Other Woman

Emily — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 14:00:00 -0400

Jezebel recently published the name and photos of the "woman who broke up Kim Gordon and Thurston Moore." I don't buy that.

It Happened To Me Contest Entry: My Affair With A Devout Christian Led To A Mental Breakdown But I’m Slowly Getting Better

IHTM CONTESTANT — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 14:30:00 -0500

No doubt he represents himself as Mr. Squeaky Clean Role Model to the parishioners in his wholesome Midwest hometown. They just don’t know he’s really a kinky sex maniac who’s totally into coveting thy neighbor’s wife.

It Happened To Me Contest Entry: I Had An Emotional Affair And It Saved My Life

IHTM CONTESTANT — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 11:30:00 -0500

John taught me that not every guy was like my husband. It was the push I needed to really see that life could be normal again.

IT HAPPENED TO ME: I Stole Someone Else's Boyfriend and I'm Not Sorry

Anonymous — Fri, 14 Dec 2012 15:30:00 -0500

One thing that happens when you move to the front seat from the passenger is that it leaves a space that's just waiting to be filled.

My "Perfect" Husband Abandoned Me Twice and I Finally Figured Out Self-Esteem

Ruby Howard — Tue, 09 Oct 2012 10:00:00 -0400

When Andrew came home, I had my life back, but it was a poisoned, distorted version of the happy life I’d thought we had.

It Happened to Me: I Had An Emotional Affair

Anonymous — Mon, 16 Jul 2012 12:00:24 -0400

I had a lengthy emotional affair that involved copious amounts of text messaging and elbow rubbing. 

REBOUND 2: Introducing Anonymous Single Girl

Anonymous Single Girl — Fri, 29 Jun 2012 11:00:18 -0400

More coke, forgetting to eat, heroin, some lesbian stuff, becoming best-friends with some of the finest bartenders in town, more forgetting to eat, a guy with a really weird dick and a few declarations of love.

It Happened To Me: I Had a 5-Year Affair With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

Anonymous — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 14:15:00 -0400

As my friendship with Alex grew, I was constantly overwhelmed with guilt about the secret I was keeping from her.

It Happened to Me: I (Almost) Had an Affair with My Teacher

Anonymous — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 13:00:48 -0400

it just seemed like I had a schoolgirl crush, until I found myself drunk in his house, wondering what would happen if his wife came home early,

I Hate Condoms (But Not For The Same Reasons Everyone Else Does)

Sari Botton — Mon, 18 Jun 2012 11:00:29 -0400

In almost every one of my relationships, at some point a condom showed up where it shouldn’t have.

I Don't Believe in Cheating, But I Did It Anyway

Anonymous — Wed, 13 Jun 2012 10:00:22 -0400

I don’t like women purposely hurting other women.We need to stick together. But like I said: I did it anyway.

It Happened To Me: I Cheated On My Boyfriend

Kelli Gail — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 09:00:22 -0400

The kiss was intimate with a hint of danger. And it was happening just a few feet from where my boyfriend was discussing the merits of Jaeger bombs.

The xoJane Interview: Juicy Jacqulyn, the BBW Model Who's Speaking Out Against Ashley Madison's Size-ist Use of Her Image

Emily — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 09:00:54 -0500

We got to ask her all our burning questions about body-shaming, sexuality and just what she'd like to say to those Ashley Madison execs.

Are Cheat-y Ladies Less Likely to Get Busted?

Emily — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 11:02:16 -0400

Well, I NEVER DID. But seriously, women are way better at this.