creepiness
Time and time again, straight dudes let me down.
in

Aug 21, 2014 at 10:00am | 334 comments

sexism
For some transmasculine people, who may have years or decades of experience being treated as women, there is a nuance to our interactions with women that runs a little deeper.
in

Aug 16, 2014 at 9:00am | 24 comments

sexism
Without fail, if the male store clerks see me wandering the aisles without my husband in tow, they’ll follow me around as if they’re worried I might be a shoplifter.
job interviews
The husband gets asked normal questions about work and stuff, while the wife gets grilled about whether she can “handle” high school boys and if she’s hoping to get knocked up herself.
leaning in
I think that a lot of efforts to “empower” women (or whatever group) would be much more impactful if they were turned around on men. Like, I don’t need to be empowered. I need men to stop disempowering me.
in

Jul 28, 2014 at 5:00pm | 72 comments

ray rice
In addition to the whole “One of our teams is named for a racial slur” thing, the NFL has a culture of sexism bordering on misogyny.
in

Jul 26, 2014 at 10:00am | 50 comments

bechdel test
Instead of using the Bechdel Test as a catch-all critical condemnation, we can use it as a jumping-off point for larger conversations about the role women play in popular films. When films fail, why do they fail?
mormon
There has been a post circulating entitled “An Open Letter to Mormon Feminists” in which the author pleads with her fellow Mormon women to not leave the Church in anger.
sexism
Number One: Don’t act like the world is your living room, and call out men who do.
in

Jul 11, 2014 at 12:30pm | 274 comments

moms
A boy said, "No girls allowed. Boys game only.” She looked back at me, smirked and stayed in line.
bands
I didn’t expect that sexism would be such a prevalent issue in nerd culture. It surprised me that this blatant, unfair exclusion was being practiced in a culture that was pioneered for and by outcasts.
sexism
Students reported being told to wear skirts longer than the dress code actually required, with a side of being reminded that they were "gonna get raped" in the clothes they'd chosen.
cosplay
Attacks on women in the geek world happen daily and are all-pervasive.
sexism
Stuff gets WEIRD in some of these T-shirt shops.
in

Jun 11, 2014 at 12:30pm | 193 comments

hurricane sandy
Our culture’s tendency to think of women as weak and inconsequential actually has a measurable death toll.
apologies
Making jokes at the expense of others is something I’m very ashamed of.
alcohol
issues
The first sentence? "Sports is not the first place that you imagine seeing girls unless they are cheering on the sidelines."
elliot rodger
If I point out that 40 percent of mass shootings begin with incidents of domestic violence -- will it matter?
comic books
If you’re not threatened with rape, you’re told you’re not qualified, you’re not good enough, you’re not welcome here.
comedy
lawyers
A judge who thinks this way is not someone I would want presiding over any case involving sexism, violence against women, or rape.