gender politics

TMI STORYTIME: Your First Orgasm! Tell Us About It!

What little I knew about orgasms was culled from the copies of Cosmopolitan I routinely pilfered from my mom, something I’d been doing for quite awhile before I found myself blinking at the Garfield poster on the wall opposite my bed, trying to process what had just taken place.
Lesley in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, gender politics, ladyparts, no orgasms, orgasms, spending quality time with someone you love

Feb 24, 2012 at 2:00pm | 239 comments

g-spot

Should I Get Collagen Shot Into My G-Spot? I'd Have to Find It First

Making a spot that feels totally amazing and then hiding it was kind of a dick move on God's part.
Emily in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, g-spot, orgasms, healthy, g-shot

Oct 23, 2012 at 3:00pm | 189 comments

sex

It Happened To Me: I've Never Had An Orgasm

For people my age, who grew up sneaking downstairs to watch "Sex and the City" reruns, the girl who has never ever come knows to keep her mouth shut, or risk having a bunch of Liberated Young Women patting her hand and giving her tons of Liberated Young Woman advice.
Anonymous in
It Happened To Me, sex, orgasms

Sep 5, 2012 at 4:09pm | 155 comments

orgasms

In Pursuit of a Superior Orgasm? Try Edging

When I first started having orgasms, I was just so excited to be coming at all that I was never really concerned with quality. Since then, I have become a smidge more sexually entitled.
Zoe in
Sex, orgasms, edging

Mar 14, 2013 at 5:00pm | 119 comments

oral sex

How I Learned to Love Getting Oral Sex

I’ve suffered my whole sexually active life under the imploring words of other women, “But it’s so good, Kat, so, so very good!”
Kat George in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, oral sex, orgasms

Aug 7, 2012 at 4:35pm | 107 comments

advice

Queer Sex Advice for Straight Girls!

Nobody gives non-binary people sex advice. I pretty much had to make it all up. Straight girls, you can do that too, and as a bonus, I’m going to be nice and let you keep your gender.
Avory in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, advice, orgasms, queers

Mar 20, 2012 at 1:00pm | 76 comments

orgasms

I Saw That Orgasmic Meditation Dude, I Saw My Friend With Benefits, I Had an Amazing Orgasm -- Can You Guess Who Gave It To Me?

I <3 orgasms.
Mandy in
Relationships, orgasms, fwb

May 17, 2013 at 3:30pm | 73 comments

d-sandwich

Is Someone You Know Not Having Orgasms? (There's a Beauty Product for That)

Plus, Courtney Love's advice on getting off.
Julie in
Beauty, D-Sandwich, masturbating, nars, orgasms, shappable, smashbox

Apr 5, 2012 at 12:30pm | 72 comments

clean

5 Orgasm-Inducing Shower Gels (And A Free Soundtrack To Go With It)

I’m a shower-wall beater (and possibly other things) when the stuff is good, I fully admit that.
Kristin Booker in
Beauty, Clean, nice smells, orgasms, shoppables, showering, vanilla

Aug 16, 2012 at 6:00pm | 69 comments

gym class

Ever Had a Surprise Gym Orgasm?

If you've had a mini-orgasm while, say, on the sit-up machine, science says you're not the only one.
Kate Conway in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, gym class, middle school is hell, orgasms, surprise orgasms

Jul 27, 2012 at 3:00pm | 67 comments

orgasms

I Have Orgasm Anxiety

As soon as I start to feel real good, my brain goes on some self-hating, orgasm-thwarting monologue about how my partner is probably bored out of their mind.
Zoe in
Issues, orgasms, female orgasms, anxiety

Apr 4, 2013 at 3:00pm | 64 comments

aurors

I've Been Having Orgasms In My Sleep -- Doesn't Everyone?

I thought nothing of it until a friend of mine said it was an entity stealing my big O. Now, I’m terrified.
Danielle in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, aurors, orgasms, orgasms in your sleep, sexy ghosts, the entity

Sep 17, 2012 at 3:30pm | 53 comments

baller

Analyze: My Transgressive Sex Fantasies Are Either About My Actual Husband or No-Touch Clintonian Monogamy

If you are related to me by blood or marriage, this isn't for you. Otherwise, enjoy the details of my real life sex fantasies!
Rachel_1 in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, baller, boundaries, can't touch this, fantasies, husbands, love, marriage, orgasms, sex, strangers, wives

May 25, 2012 at 9:30am | 42 comments

gratitude

On Gratitude, God, Pitbulls and Making a Man Come Five Times in a Row

I know all about the first three. Not so much the fourth.
Mandy in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, gratitude, God, orgasms

May 15, 2013 at 4:00pm | 42 comments

orgasms

Can You Have An O From P in the V?

That is my advertiser-friendly way of introducing the topic of vaginal orgasms.
Emily in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, orgasms, vaginas

Nov 18, 2011 at 1:00pm | 0 comments

female orgasmic disorder

It Happened to Me: I Can't Have An Orgasm

Female orgasmic disorder is generally believed to have psychological causes, such as a history of abuse, anxiety, depression and lack of self-esteem. And guilt.
Anonymous in
It Happened To Me, female orgasmic disorder, guilt, orgasms, sex

Dec 1, 2011 at 1:00pm | 0 comments