threesomes

Has A Fantasy Ever Ruined Your Relationship? (AHEM, THREESOMES)

The hot second you indicate to a dude that you think threesomes are sexy and might, in the absolute RIGHTEST of right circumstances, be open to maybe sort of VAGUELY considering having one or something like one, they will never, ever shut up about it.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, threesomes, threeways, fantasies, partners, dirty talk, failed dirty talk

Mar 18, 2013 at 12:00pm | 100 comments

porn

Have You Ever Watched Porn With Your S.O.? It’s Logistically Difficult, No?

I’m busy trying to fix my face into an expression that could read as either horny or wary, because if he likes it, I don’t want to make him feel gross about it, and if he doesn’t, I don’t want him to think I’m into it, god, no.
Rebecca Santiago in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, porn, fantasies, awkwardness

Mar 6, 2013 at 9:00am | 73 comments

being fat in the world

I Will Believe Anything You Tell Me About Exercise

When I read recently that running on a treadmill can make you fat, it was a quiet shock to the guts like the one I get when I finish eating a personal pizza and discover that I've eaten nine servings in under five minutes.
Rebecca in
Healthy, being fat in the world, exercise, fantasies

Feb 6, 2013 at 6:00pm | 87 comments

trauma

I've Been Going to Some Really Dark Sexual Places Lately in Fantasy -- And It's Bumming Me Out

I'm so sick of my sex brain. I want a new one.
Mandy in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, trauma, abuse, relationships, fantasies

Nov 20, 2012 at 11:00am | 159 comments

fantasies

5 Pretty Effed-Up But Real Things I Actually Fantasize About

I'm trying to remember what women did back before "50 Shades of Grey" taught us how to fantasize.
Emily in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, fantasies

Nov 6, 2012 at 3:08pm | 265 comments

facials

Why I Like Facials (The Dirty Kind)

My orgasms are a politics-free zone.
Emily in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, facials, fantasies, porn, feminism

Aug 28, 2012 at 2:00pm | 188 comments

fantasies

I Can't Stop Hate-Masturbating to Paul Ryan

And I really, really, really hate him, you guys.
Mandy in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, fantasies, hate sex, masturbation, Paul Ryan

Aug 14, 2012 at 11:00am | 124 comments

baller

Analyze: My Transgressive Sex Fantasies Are Either About My Actual Husband or No-Touch Clintonian Monogamy

If you are related to me by blood or marriage, this isn't for you. Otherwise, enjoy the details of my real life sex fantasies!
Rachel_1 in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, baller, boundaries, can't touch this, fantasies, husbands, love, marriage, orgasms, sex, strangers, wives

May 25, 2012 at 9:30am | 42 comments

crushes

If You Get a Chance to Sleep With Your Life-Long Crush, Go For It

I did, and it was awesome!
Emily in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, crushes, fantasies, makin' your dreams come true

Dec 19, 2011 at 2:30pm | 0 comments

bang bus

Do You Pay for Porn?

Every part of my sexual life philosophy until this point has hinged on one fundamental belief: that as a woman, getting laid will always be super easy, which means I shouldn't have to spend any time, effort or money making it happen.
Emily in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, bang bus, fantasies, porn

Nov 11, 2011 at 12:05pm | 0 comments

dr. keith ablow

I'll Try Anything Once: Dr. Keith Ablow's 5 Ways to Put the X Back in Married Sex

My marriage is more of a Fritz-The-Cat-X than a Last-Tango-In-Paris-X, by choice and nature, but I’m all for adult education.
Rachel_1 in
Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love, Dr. Keith Ablow, fantasies, Good Houskeeping, i'll try anything once, marriage, sex

Aug 11, 2011 at 3:02pm | 0 comments