The women who write about their CDD experiences online are not complaining. Many of them report feeling extremely calm and relaxed after being disciplined, and believe it is an expression of their husband caring about them enough to help them modify their behaviour.
No doubt he represents himself as Mr. Squeaky Clean Role Model to the parishioners in his wholesome Midwest hometown. They just don’t know he’s really a kinky sex maniac who’s totally into coveting thy neighbor’s wife.
When we visited our county museum, my mom and I were asked if we were “part of the pioneer exhibit.” Long before America gawked at the Duggers’ quaint dresses and dated hair on TLC, I lived in a family freak show.