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Stop Blaming Mom: For Nancy Lanza And All Women Who Share A Home With Someone With Mental Illness

When a story about family violence makes the news, I’m really not interested in how the victim could have behaved better. Maybe because I used to have a spouse with a mental illness who I feared would kill me.
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