The statement, "Oh I didn't even notice you were black. I don't see color," has been said to me on countless occasions. It’s patronizing and insulting.
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baby
Anything designed with babies in mind is instantly more desirable.
shoppables
Though I weigh every purchase carefully and do research and try to find deals, I REALLY LIKE TO BUY STUFF.
baby
I talk to my mother on my way to the gym. “I’m late for my period,” I tell her. “I don’t want to get my hopes up but I’m just saying, I’m late. Do you think it’s OK for me to work out?”
baby
I call Planned Parenthood and they refer me to the local teaching hospital. A review calls the hospital ‘almost a non-profit’, and I’m sold. I make a call and their financial person calls me right back. I get off the phone feeling like it’s less expensive than I thought – maybe not even expensive after all! This is a phenomenon already known to me as the Barneys Effect.
baby
Turned out I didn't need the three decks of Tarot cards I packed for the birth of my new nephew.
