No one on this Delta flight even checked if mine was fastened. I like that policy where consenting adults are concerned. Live and let live/die. Don't ask, do tell (loudly). Okay, another Am I The Worst Mom in the World Or What? I show Charlotte how to get away with not wearing her seatbelt on flights. It feels free and secure and fun and like taking charge of your own destiny. If she wanted to wear them on flights, I would show her how to do that, too. I will be back in NYC in 5 1/2 hours. This plane is hotter than Las Vegas by a long shot and we are many thousands of feet up.