YOU ARE THE ADVICE COLUMNIST: I Contracted Herpes and Don't Want Any Guys To Get Near Me

How can I get past this mindset?
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How can I get past this mindset?


Dear xoJane -- I contracted herpes about a year ago and my dating life has been completely destroyed I am so ashamed of myself. I hate myself now and do not find myself sexy or beautiful. I don't want any guys to touch me -- ever. I can't get close to people. The guys I have told do not care -- they have made it clear that no STD will keep them from still having sex -- which makes me feel worse! How can I move on with this and find a healthy relationship? Thanks. 

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