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Is it normal to not know and just enjoy things as they are?
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Is it normal to not know and just enjoy things as they are?
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My BF and I have been together 2 years and I have a kid with another man. We live separately and the subject of moving in has come up once and we agreed we weren't ready. It got me thinking, what do I want out of my relationship? Should I even want anything? Or is it normal to not know and just enjoy things as they are?

My second question is, how should I ask my very anti-confrontational man if he's all in this relationship? If he wants, down the line that is, to live together and what not (neither one of us want to be married).

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