Doing “unfeminist” things doesn’t make you a hypocrite, it makes you human.
Next time I'll "just say no" to videos like these, but is that enough?
Many natural procrastinators I know are people who are praised for their intelligence. They misinterpret that as a sign that they don’t need to have structure for their brain’s daily activities, and don’t need to give it the proper respect and exercise that it requires and deserves.
being an adult
I have a job and a home and a bank account and I take care of things (living ones! including myself!). But I still don't feel how I'd imagined I'd feel by 36.
I have the equivalent of a huge, uh, package in this arena, but I hate the competition around it -- my friends who couldn’t do it had to deal with shame and guilt piled on by moms who should have been supportive.