As a fat woman of color, I’m often treated differently than my thin, white peers. By brands, by fellow bloggers, by the media… I get passed over for things I’m more than qualified for. I get stares and cold shoulders at fashion events. I hear whispers. I get hate mail and trolling comments from people who call me disgusting and say I shouldn’t be allowed in public. Like Bey, I usually just brush these people off, and I never give them power by addressing them here or anywhere else. But it gets tiring, and sometimes I’m really tempted to drop the lady-like thing and just kind of…go off. So when I heard Beyonce telling her haters to Bow Down in the song ***Flawless, I immediately fell in love.
Watch GabiFresh In Her Awesome New Version of Beyoncé’s “Flawless”
Plus-size fashion blogger GabiFresh recruited Nadia Aboulhosn (whose columns will continue to appear on Styleite) and Tess Munster to flaunt self-acceptance in their own version of Beyoncé’s “Flawless” with the hashtag #everyoneisflawless. They proudly mimic Beyoncé’s words behind the symbolic bars that separate women not from men but from skinny white girls.
On her blog yesterday, she wrote,
Watch it here and look out for Nadia’s grill.
Strangely, in the original version, Beyoncé’s empowering message works, but it’s always couched in some pop-friendly discordant lines. (Naturally that’s more effective than preaching. ) Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie‘s freestyling about how “we teach girls to shrink themselves sound oddly mismatched to Beyonce’s “This diamond, flawless/My diamond, flawless/This rock, flawless/My rock, flawless.” But it’s Beyonce’s unbridled ambition that earned her these bragging rights. But Adichie’s line about teaching girls to shrink themselves somehow comes across with these ladies.
Gabi’s anthem-y version starts with news commentators examining plus-size shapes in the media, and it ends with a fitting Huffington Post comment: “Regardless of how people’s metabolism function, or what they look like, each of us deserves respect, compassion, and can’t be judged by anyone but themselves.” Bow down bitches.
Reprinted with permission from Stylite. Want more?