What I’ve found in the unfolding of my legs, and subsequently in my career, is that people -- mostly men I’m dating -- come to the table (or the bedroom) with a series of preconceived ideas about who I am and what I represent.
sex, sex, sex ... and love
one night stands
Having a one night stand didn’t make me feel cheap or nasty; in fact, it had none of those negative connotations that are generally associated with random, fleeting sex. It just all felt sort of pointless.
oral sex
I’ve suffered my whole sexually active life under the imploring words of other women, “But it’s so good, Kat, so, so very good!”
