Being Asian-Indonesian-Javanese had me cornered in a place where women are considered lower than men.
When identity is hard to define, you find yourself creating your own. That’s all the third culture is and claims to be. It’s a form of community, one that we often have to build ourselves.
We all need role models who look like us, but Dev brings us our own messy, sometimes superficial, and often privileged stories of navigating adulthood in a way that validates our experiences.