My friend Samantha and I used to exchange elaborate emails about our love lives. It's painful to read now.
So, your queer friends are getting married! Congratulations!
How to keep having sex even though you're living together.
you are the advice columnist
I am fully aware that I'm the guest in this situation.
I've never understood this concept that our lovers are supposed to "give" us an orgasm, like a present in a nicely wrapped box, and that if they don't, they're a “bad” lover.
sex, sex, sex ... and love
What if, in the midst of yelling at each other about the way one of you flosses your teeth too frequently (or not often enough), you pause and realize this isn’t really about flossing technique at all, it’s actually about control issues you inherited from your mother?
It's not that I actually think fetuses are the same as parasites. But I kind of do.
I am taking a long, uncomfortable look at my financial relationship mistakes, so you know exactly what NOT to do.
You know, like to see if they're into you enough to get jealous, or something petty like that? I do -- or I have -- but I'm reading a book that's making me feel way less bad about it.
I'd never noticed before that I had been doing most of the heavy lifting when it came to dating. But when I tried to let men take the reins, they took it as rejection or disinterest.
in the closet
I learned that I could identify as gay on the inside, and that was safe.
I probably didn’t make up the term for or concept of the not-a-boyfriend but have had many in my life, I can provide a great definition for who they are.