sex
We were best friends. You might say it was a brother-sister dynamic, except most brothers don’t spoon their sisters and kiss them on the mouth before bed.
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Apr 13, 2014 at 11:00am | 34 comments

indepedent women
blindness
Nervous for the upcoming date, I confided in a friend. She asked me how he would know if I was attractive.
facebook
love
Not that anyone is particularly good at it. But still, I think I'm worse than most.
ihtm
Love knows no borders. The British government does, though.
breakups
Apparently, women take six days to break up with someone, while men drag things out for a month before cutting their lover-person loose.
love
No, not the kind of hunting where you wear camo and sleep in the woods, silly.
valentine's day
Is it unreasonable for me to want to share my life with someone? And, if we accept that perhaps it is not, is it understandable that a holiday dedicated to romance could intensify that desire and underline what is missing?
holidays
I've seen publications post stories promoting Valentine's Day survival kits. Really??
getting pregnant with michelle tea
If you are a white person one experience you will have throughout your life is other white people saying racist things to you, in this super comfortable tone rich with camaraderie.
refinery29
"Polyamorous" is a made-up word (it was first used in the early '90s), but it's not a made-up concept. People across cultures have been engaging in multiple-partner relationships for thousands of years.
engagement
Even after ten years in a happy relationship, my boyfriend showed zero interest in popping the question -- so I took matters into my own hands.
interracial dating
My parents didn’t get married to shake things up -- they just fell in love. People’s terrible reactions are what turned it into a "statement."
men
Ladies, stay gorgeous forever or else your husband might stop loving you, OK? See, a new study concludes that men are happier when married to "good-looking" women. Barf. And duh.
dating
A new study lists the top 5 keywords that cause men to get rejected on Internet dating sites. What self-descriptors give you the heebie-jeebies?
drinking
How do we manage if wine features heavily in our lifestyles, so my trust will be constantly in jeopardy?
long distance
Do I continue to maintain my pride? No contact, tough things out? Or do I make a grand gesture?
music
Fine, one is a Morrissey song, but whatever, same diff. THEY MESSED WITH MY HEAD, MOM.
music
Cry it out, scream, dance it off. I'm here for you, and so is this playlist.
libido
I am considering antidepressants to kill my libido.
you are the advice columnist
I love him so, so much, and I'm absolutely terrified at even the idea of leaving, but I don't know how much more I can take of this.