weddings
Weddings aren't always about delicious cake and releasing white doves to the tune of "You Look Wonderful Tonight," especially when your job requires you to think about your failed marriage on a regular basis.
divorce
The very clear and simple reason I must strive to be a grown-up about this is because I have a child in the equation, which means I’m obligated to make it as amicable as I possibly can, whether it suits me or not.
divorce
If you have never been through a divorce yourself, you might not realize how the things you are saying might actually be making your friend feel worse.
marriage
What if I don't want my new name to sound like a paint color, huh?
divorce
If parents act maturely and responsibly, emotional trauma doesn’t even need to enter into the equation.
family
I made the decision to cut off all contact with my mother.
divorce
You can finally hear your own voice again. Plus you no longer have to constantly initiate sex, and hallelujah: no more obligatory birthday blowjobs.
dumpsters
My daughter's friends don't believe her when she tells them, "Daddy lives in a dumpster."
facebook
sex sex sex and love
I’ve never been good at guessing the end of books and movies. I guess I’m just not the kind of person who sees things coming.
sex sex sex and love
For the first time in my life, I am having to function as an adult on my own, and I can't say I like it.
marriage
We got married a month after I moved there and I didn't tell anyone until after the fact
divorce
When the marriage comes to a screeching halt a few years later, you not only have to come to terms with your life not turning out the way you expected, but you also have to explain it to everyone watching.
elizabeth street
I think about my older child, who is the more sensitive one, and how a divorce could just destroy her and confuse all sense of order that she has in the world.
you are the advice columnist
I'm thinking about telling him, even knowing it will probably end at least the one friendship.
addiction
divorce
Filing the divorce paperwork wasn't that bad. Here's how I did it.
in

Oct 16, 2013 at 4:00pm | 44 comments

relationships
When we started dating, I felt a communal cringe within our clique: What if this doesn’t work out? Well, it didn’t, and our social situation has been screwed ever since.
divorce
Broken vintage record players? HIS. Adorable throw pillows? MINE. The piles and piles of other crap? A bunch of un-fun conversations!
in

Oct 2, 2013 at 10:00am | 90 comments

divorce
Many well-meaning people immediately asked me if we were sure. Uh, where was that doubt when I was spending thousands of dollars on my wedding?
what the parenting books don't tell you
And the one thing I just realized will make keeping track of the custody schedule SO much easier.
catherine zeta-jones
I'm not sure exactly why I care about the latest celebrity romantic casualty. But ... I kind-of do. Just a little.