mra
I met him while I was at work. He was forward and just charming enough for his approach not to register as negative on my radar.
in

Jun 26, 2014 at 2:00pm | 1740 comments

stalking
I'm 18. It's not cool for a 27-year-old who you've gone on two dates with to suddenly show up on your college campus demanding to speak and sending pictures of how close he is to you physically.
in

Mar 15, 2013 at 12:00pm | 1034 comments

height
If we want men as a gender to question the beauty standard, shouldn't we be willing to do the same?
physical attraction
I'm strictly talking physical attributes here.
ok cupid
fat
dating
I could never date a guy with a cat (and I'm sure a guy with a cat would never want to date me), so is there really any reason to meet for coffee? I say: no.
dating
I decided I would use OkCupid and Craigslist (yes, even scary ol’ Craigslist) so I could have dinner three times a week without opening my wallet.
dating
I looked down at my cell phone: 8:11pm. We met at 8pm. Time flies when you’re having no fun at all.
dating
When did you get to the point where you thought, "NOOOOOOPE," and mentally moonwalked out of the room?
dating
I’m trying to figure out why I’ve been alone this long, because I’m kind of sick of it. (And everyone at xoJane is sick of hearing about it.)
dating
attraction
On a scale from 1 to James Franco, the men I’ve dated have been about a John C. Reilly.
anonymous single guy
Sometimes you choose to have sex even though it's a terrible fucking idea.
dating
Aren't we all a little confused when it comes to the right or wrong way to date in the 21st Century?
open relationships
He reads all my work, is there for me if I'm upset and has been a 100 percent source of positivity in my life. But friends still view me as a victim.
okcupid
oral sex
They don't come right out and refuse to go down on you. They just never, ever take the initiative.
dating
I feel bad about my body a lot. I will try not to talk about it too much, but if we are together for like a year I'm probably eventually going to say something about how fat I feel.
dating
anonymous single guy
I promised myself when I started dating again I would always be honest about my intentions. The policy seemed easy enough, if only because people rarely ask difficult questions early on.
okcupid
"Will you be my date on Halloween? I'm thinking you can dress up as Esmeralda in high heels. and I'll be Quasimodo."
in

Aug 23, 2013 at 3:00pm | 482 comments