White Slim and Pretty –- My Response to IFB’s Blogging and Body Image

It’s just silly and rather closed minded to think, or assume, that the reason why blogs run by women of color or size don’t get the notoriety we deserve is because our blog’s content sucks or it’s poorly designed. Simply put, it’s because I am not white, slim, and pretty.

Aug 16, 2012 at 2:00pm | Leave a comment

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We like to convince ourselves that our world is equal. Sure we’re not slaves anymore, and I am not running around fixing to fetch Master some tea, but our worlds are very separate. Especially in the fashion industry.

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If you don’t believe me head over to the magazine section at your favorite bookstore. Have a peek inside of any magazine -- OR just look at the cover. I’m usually not there. I am your average brown girl, cute -- but not fair-skinned and tall with hair-weaved-all-down-my-back. I’ve got curves. The kind of curves that make a man take a double look. The kind that make a casting director say, “You’re a bit larger than what we’re looking for.”

Point blank -- I am not white, slim, and pretty. Although the last adjective might be debatable.

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So I wasn’t surprised to read IFB’s latest entry “Bloggers & Body: Are We Helping or Hurting Ourselves?“. I read the post about 5 times. Just to make sure that I was clear on the intent of the author. Which gets a little lost after reading a few paragraphs. One of the points the author makes is that the majority of our popular blog culture is thin and beautiful. And that these top tier white, slim, and pretty bloggers …

“have high-quality images, consistent posting schedules, spot-on design and unique style. There are many brilliant and well-done blogs whose authors and content provide a fresh and unique voice that’s also inclusive of more well-rounded audience.”

and that …

“In order for a more holistic image of fashionable women to permeate the top tier of blogging as well as traditional fashion media, there needs to be a serious commitment to higher-quality content, as well as a more committed approach to fostering their growth from brands and larger publications. At the moment, there aren’t enough blogs run by these types of women that get the notoriety they deserve.”

I have to LOL, and give a huge le sigh at the above quotes. While I do agree with a large portion of the post I felt compelled (after a push from LoveBrownSugar) to write my own response rather than leave a comment on the IFB site.

It’s just silly and rather closed minded to think, or assume, that the reason why blogs run by women of color or size don’t get the notoriety we deserve is because our blog’s content sucks or it’s poorly designed. Simply put, it’s because I am not white, slim, and pretty.

The blogging industry is no different than corporate America. Women of color or size get passed over for numerous opportunities on a daily maybe even hourly basis. And until the powers that be understand and begin to realize the power of my influence, I believe this won’t change.

This is the reason why there’s a significant difference in the number of models of color used during fashion week. Or how white celebrities dominate the covers of fashion and lifestyle publications. I wrote a post last summer summarizing my thoughts on who’s really represented in the fashion industry -- affectionately titled, Is Fashion Racist, Ageist, and Fattist?.

I ask that same question today and I say YES, it is! In order to get the notoriety we deserve we create our own networks, and publications. It would be nice if IFB highlighted more bloggers of color and size. Technically they are a part of the problem too. But kudos for having Iman as a keynote. Maybe change is near?

IFB has received a lot of backlash for this article. So much so that the founder decided to pen an open letter. In my opinion the letter does more harm than good.  

One sentence stands out, mainly because it’s in bold -- Being featured by another publication is a privilege, not a right. I wholeheartedly agree with that statement. And I am elated when I am featured on a site or in magazines because of my blogging efforts.

But as a community of bloggers, as IFB claims to be, it’s OUR responsibility to emulate the diversity that exists in our world. Again these are JUST my opinions. Check out a few other posts around the blogosphere on this topic.

* Race, Body Image and the Conversation Bloggers Should Be Having by ThoseGraces.com 

* Breaking The Silence: A Response To “Bloggers & Body Image” by LoveBrownSugar.com 

* IFB Says Not Enough Women Who Aren’t Thin, Beautiful Have High Quality Blogs by GetOffMyInternets.com 

* Removing Myself from IFB by dreafashionista.blogspot.com 

* Diversity in the Blogging Industry by deejayspeaks.blogspot.com 

* Requesting Your Assistance by WardrobeOxygen.com

AND of course .. SOUND OFF below!

Reprinted with permission from Gorgeous in Grey.

Posted in Beauty, blogging, race