He’s a boy, I’m a lesbian. Our love was not meant to be. But who cares? He’s pretty.
No one wants to keep feminism or theory locked up in an ivory tower - ideas are meant to be shared, disseminated as widely as possible. This stuff is awesome, and it's for everyone.
The comparison I made light-heartedly to friends was that the Ring was like a horcrux in Harry Potter. It took control of me, made me different, made me darker -- and the last thing I wanted to do was remove it.