This idea that women should never do anything proactive to pursue a man is such bullshit, and, crucially, counter productive. If I never got in touch with a guy, texted him first, asked him out, I’d never see a guy. Like ever.
We had lots of open, funny chats. My problem is that I’m too open for my own good. Always searching for the holy grail of no-armbands conversation. This is definitely a problem sometimes, in that it gets me in trouble.
My ex waited until he was desperate and had completely fucked everything up with our relationship before committing his feelings to CD. But which time it was, of course, too late.