Our sex-negative culture practically sets us up for failure.
"We have a running joke, 'is it OK to hug your dom?' And of course, after the pain, the beatings, the sobbing and orgasms, he always holds me in his arms, until I am put back together."
Sex positivism sees sex as a part of life that should be celebrated, not hidden away. It is about accepting that there is no “better” way to have sex, just the way that works for the individual.