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This was the first time we had sex of any kind.
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This was the first time we had sex of any kind.

Hi,

I have a curious question on some behavior I viewed and I wanted your thoughts on possible meaning(s).

I performed fellatio on a guy while he was sitting on the couch and I was facing him, with knees on the floor.

He had his hands on his eyes the entire time.

(Like how a child would put both hands on eyes playing Hide-and-seek)

I thought this was "different" behavior than I normally have experienced with men and I do know that oral sex is usually enjoyed by people viewing the act.

Background:

We were not in a relationship.

This all took place the next day after our third date.

He had slept over, nothing took place, until the next day.

Prior to the couch interaction, 45 min before, we did the 69 position in my bedroom, so I wouldn't know if he would have done the same behavior.

This was the first time we had sex of any sort as well.

I look forward to your wisdom.

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