YOU ARE THE ADVICE COLUMNIST: The Dude I'm Seeing Just Sent Me An Offensive Text

It sucks I would have misjudged someone after all these months.

Oct 31, 2013 at 6:30pm | Leave a comment

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I have been seeing a guy for about five months. He is great and sweet in many ways, a bit older than me  (I am 42; he is 50), but we get along well and I enjoy being around him.
However, after the Cardinals/Red Sox game, I texted him I liked basketball out of all the sports because it "moves fast."
He then texted this: "Big stupid black people making millions to move fast."
WTF????  I didn't know how to respond and asked him if someone hijacked his phone and if he actually typed that.
He texted back that he had too much wine.
I still don't know how to respond. Am I overreacting? I don't even know how to respond. It sucks I would have misjudged someone after all these months.
Thanks for your input.

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