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Should I tell her how I feel about the situation or let it play out and hope that she'll come to the realization on her own?
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Should I tell her how I feel about the situation or let it play out and hope that she'll come to the realization on her own?

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My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for 4 years and they moved to San Francisco together last year. Recently she's been complaining a lot about him and saying that she's going to break up with him, but she never does. This cycle of ups and downs has been going on for months. I try not to persuade her in either direction, but honestly I don't think he treats her well enough and they might be better off if they went their separate ways. Should I tell her how I feel about the situation or let it play out and hope that she'll come to the realization on her own? 

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