I recently met really nice man. He is nearly perfect. He volunteers as a youth mentor in a program similar to Big Brothers/Big Sisters. He's always looking for ways to help people. He is involved in his career, but isn't a workaholic. He's one of the funniest people that I've ever met. It's like he's a saint who still likes a good dick joke. And then there is his dog.
He rescued his dog a couple of years ago, and the dog definitely came from an abusive situation. He's scrappy and adorable. But he's a biter. I've been warned not to let my hands get too close to him, and if I see teeth to move away. My guy has lost a fingernail to this dog's bite. This animal bites everyone. I can handle being in the same vicinity as the dog, and I know to keep my distance, but my boyfriend sleeps with him. Which means I'm expected to sleep with him too. The dog has been known to bite a sleeping person who nudges him wrong or gets too far into his space. Last night I couldn't sleep at all because I'm laying there terrified that I'm going to be hurt if I move wrong.
Is there a way to bring this up without hurting anyone's feelings. I am fully aware that I'm the guest in this situation. I don't want to displace the dog, but I don't want to sleep there if he's going to be sharing the bed.
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