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I have talked to him about this, and it hurts him because he believes he is not enough, so I've been faking it.
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I have talked to him about this, and it hurts him because he believes he is not enough, so I've been faking it.
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I have been with my boyfriend for nine months and I'm very much in love but, I have yet to orgasm during sex. I have never had problems having an orgasm during masturbation and apply the clitoral stimulation during intercourse but still nothing. I have talked to him about this and it hurts him because he believes he is not enough so I've been faking since the beginning. The sex is passionate and pleasurable but I can never climax. My gynecologist recommended I see a sex therapist but i'm not sure if that's necessary.

Please help,

Thank you

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