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How do I deal with these feelings?
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How do I deal with these feelings?


I have been married for five years, together for seven. We have two beautiful children, I'm still wildly attracted to my husband, and am deeply in love with him. But I want to sleep with someone else badly. This person I am so chemically sexually attracted to I cannot stand it. My one friend I confided in says that I should leave my husband because I obviously don't want him. Which I really don't think is true. There is also no way in hell my husband would be ok with an open relationship so I would like to continue to respect his wishes. How do I deal with these feelings? Oh and by the way there is no way to avoid this person, I see him at work about four times a week. Help!!! 

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