YOU ARE THE ADVICE COLUMNIST: Do I Tell Her?

I looked him up on Facebook out of curiosity and there he is, with his fiancee.

Jan 6, 2014 at 6:30pm | Leave a comment

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I've slept with this guy a few times, and it was always great. We both knew that there was no chance of an emotional relationship for various reasons including a sizable age difference (I was underage the first time), but the physical thing worked. It had been a while, but we met up again and resumed the relationship. I looked him up on Facebook out of curiosity and there he is, with his fiancee. I haven't confronted him about this yet, but I feel like I really need to tell her. I wouldn't want to get involved, but if they are getting married, I think she should know about his tendancies now, rather than later. Should I tell her, and if so, how?

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