To make a long story short: I had sex with a guy sans condom, he decided he was no longer interested, and I deleted his contact information. I recently got tested and found out I have my first ever, very treatable STD that I am 100% positive he gave me.
Do I need to tell him? He said he was clean and got tested regularly but clearly that's not true (always demand to see the receipts), and I don't want him spreading his germs to other unsuspecting partners. The other issue is how to contact him: via OkCupid (how we met), or Facebook (we're not friends, but I know his last name)? I also have his work email, but I'm pretty sure I'd murder someone if they emailed me at work to let me know I gave them an STD.
Anyway, any advice is appreciated!
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