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I don't want to always wonder what would have happened if I had told him but I don't want to ruin things.
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I don't want to always wonder what would have happened if I had told him but I don't want to ruin things.
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I know that a lot of people have been in this situation, but I'm really torn about what to do. My best friend and I do almost everything together! We have all the same classes, we go everywhere together, we tell each other everything. But in the past few months a problem has developed: I am totally in love with him! Most of our friends say that we should be together, or joke that we are secretly dating. He is VERY affectionate toward me and in many ways treats me the way he would treat a girlfriend. Everyone, including me, is completely confused about his intentions. Over the course of our friendship, crushes have come and gone but there have been many times that I felt like he had feelings for me and wanted to tell me. We are coming to the end of our senior year and with limited time left, I feel like it is now or never if I am going to tell him. Even if we have numbered days, I don't want to always wonder what would have happened if I had told him. At the same time, if it gets weird I don't want to ruin that limited time we have left to be together. Please help!

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