Therapy - xoJane http://www.xojane.com/list/therapy en Thu, 02 May 2013 12:30:00 -0400 <![CDATA[As a Therapist Working With Women, I Constantly Have to Be The "Cinderella Slayer"]]>

Ladies, there is no Knight in Shining Armor.

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http://www.xojane.com/sex/the-cinderella-slayer http://www.xojane.com/sex/the-cinderella-slayer Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love Thu, 02 May 2013 12:30:00 -0400 Brandy Dunn
<![CDATA[I Quit Therapy Because My Therapist Fell Asleep While I Was Crying]]>

I gave up on therapy over a decade ago because I apparently bore psychologists to sleep with my problems.

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http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-therapist-fell-asleep-while-i-was-crying http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-therapist-fell-asleep-while-i-was-crying Issues Fri, 12 Apr 2013 09:00:00 -0400 Marci
<![CDATA[I’m Conflict-Avoidant And So Is My Boyfriend (And It’s Cool, So Please Don’t, Like, Yell At Us About It, OK?)]]>

Yes, it is a little atypical that my boyfriend and I don’t fight, but things have been working out so far, right?

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http://www.xojane.com/sex/conflict-avoidance-in-relationships http://www.xojane.com/sex/conflict-avoidance-in-relationships Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love Wed, 13 Mar 2013 14:30:00 -0400 Rebecca Santiago
<![CDATA[Is it Uncool That I Just Broke Up With My Therapist Via Text?]]>

Sorry! Not sorry.

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http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-just-broke-up-with-my-therapist-via-text http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-just-broke-up-with-my-therapist-via-text Relationships Thu, 07 Mar 2013 13:30:00 -0500 Olivia
<![CDATA[The Enneagram Test: This New-Age Hippie Bulls#%t Changed My Life]]>

I grew up in a house where horoscopes were banned, and nonfiction was the genre of choice. So personality tests, and all the crunchy-hippie-granola-hooey that goes with them? Not up my alley.

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http://www.xojane.com/newagey/some-new-age-hippie-bullshit-changed-my-life http://www.xojane.com/newagey/some-new-age-hippie-bullshit-changed-my-life New Agey Tue, 29 Jan 2013 10:00:00 -0500 Lindsey Wahowiak
<![CDATA[Eight Tips For Not Dealing With Stress (From Someone Who’s Never Dealt With Stress In Her Life)]]>

I have a collection of innovative avoidance behaviors, designed to keep me from acknowledging or dealing with any unpleasantness that should befall me

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http://www.xojane.com/relationships/eight-tips-for-not-dealing-with-stress-from-someone-whos-never-dealt-with-stress-in-her-life http://www.xojane.com/relationships/eight-tips-for-not-dealing-with-stress-from-someone-whos-never-dealt-with-stress-in-her-life Relationships Mon, 28 Jan 2013 17:00:00 -0500 Abby S
<![CDATA[What Anxiety Feels Like (For Me)]]>

I went to therapy once. For exactly a year. I don't think it worked.

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http://www.xojane.com/issues/what-anxiety-feels-like-for-me http://www.xojane.com/issues/what-anxiety-feels-like-for-me Issues Tue, 18 Dec 2012 15:00:00 -0500 Lesley
<![CDATA[It Happened To Me: I Called The Suicide Hotline And Was Placed On Hold]]>

My race of women are supposed to be strong. But the truth of the matter is that black folks battle with suicide just as much as the next person. We just don’t talk about it much.

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http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-i-called-the-suicide-hotline-and-was-placed-on-hold http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-i-called-the-suicide-hotline-and-was-placed-on-hold It Happened To Me Wed, 12 Dec 2012 12:00:00 -0500 Spoken Pandora
<![CDATA[It’s Go Time: I'm Learning to Fight As Therapy]]>

When life knocks you on your ass, you can continue on the path of least resistance and hope that everything ends up okay, or you can put your ass back in the ring and learn how to fight again.

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http://www.xojane.com/healthy/willstrike-fight-training-mma-workout http://www.xojane.com/healthy/willstrike-fight-training-mma-workout Healthy Fri, 23 Nov 2012 13:00:00 -0500 Kristin Booker
<![CDATA[It Happened to Me: I Almost Dated My Therapist's Son (Who, By the Way, Was Crazy)]]>

“Oh, your mom's a shrink in New Haven,” I joked, slurring my words slightly. “Is her name Carol?”

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http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/the-perfect-guy-i-couldnt-date http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/the-perfect-guy-i-couldnt-date It Happened To Me Fri, 09 Nov 2012 13:00:00 -0500 Anonymous
<![CDATA[My Therapist Suggested I Read xoJane ]]>

From the beginning, my therapist has been trying to make me see that it is OK to be who I am, and taking her suggestion to read xoJane was one of the best choices I could have made.

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http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-therapist-suggested-i-read-xojane http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-therapist-suggested-i-read-xojane Issues Wed, 29 Aug 2012 09:30:00 -0400 Vanessa Reich-Shackleford
<![CDATA[It Happened to Me: I'm a Mommy With a DUI]]>

I didn't think twice about the fact that I had downed a couple of beers until I saw the cherries spinning behind me on the Interstate.

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http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-mommy-dui http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-mommy-dui It Happened To Me Thu, 16 Aug 2012 15:30:17 -0400 Anonymous_1
<![CDATA[Why Acne Psychologist Dr. Ted Grossbart Blames my Ex for my Bad Skin]]>

This week in Acne Awareness Month I try an alternative skin treatment -- talk therapy.

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http://www.xojane.com/beauty/dr-grossbart-acne-psychologist http://www.xojane.com/beauty/dr-grossbart-acne-psychologist Beauty Tue, 26 Jun 2012 11:00:31 -0400 Julie
<![CDATA[I'm Not Supposed To Be Masturbating, But I Do]]>

And I'm lying to my therapist about it, so I hope he doesn't Google me.

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http://www.xojane.com/sex/female-masturbation http://www.xojane.com/sex/female-masturbation Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love Tue, 19 Jun 2012 14:00:20 -0400 Emily
<![CDATA[Psychodrama! Or, Happy Birthday, Hope You Like Crying!]]>

Why I spent my birthday weekend trying to get in touch with my inner child through an experiental psychodrama workshop, despite the fact that at least 5 of the words in this sentence make me want to drive a glass shard into my throat.

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http://www.xojane.com/healthy/psychodrama-therapy-workshop http://www.xojane.com/healthy/psychodrama-therapy-workshop Healthy Fri, 18 May 2012 14:05:26 -0400 Emily
<![CDATA[I Am Totally Quitting Therapy]]>

Just as soon as you give me advice on how to do it.

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http://www.xojane.com/healthy/how-to-quit-therapy http://www.xojane.com/healthy/how-to-quit-therapy Healthy Fri, 11 May 2012 13:00:19 -0400 Daisy
<![CDATA[HOW TO: Find a Good Therapist in 10 Steps]]>

Some practical tips for finding a professional to help you save your mental health -- or even your life.

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http://www.xojane.com/healthy/how-to-find-good-therapist http://www.xojane.com/healthy/how-to-find-good-therapist Healthy Fri, 20 Apr 2012 14:00:26 -0400 Marianne
<![CDATA[Put a Quarter in the Jar, Julieanne: The Week I Tried to Stop Swearing So Much]]>

I'm a grown ass adult who shouldn't talk like a trashy teen skater who just ollied out of a rural Dairy Mart.

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http://www.xojane.com/fun/put-quarter-jar-julieanne-week-i-tried-stop-swearing-so-much http://www.xojane.com/fun/put-quarter-jar-julieanne-week-i-tried-stop-swearing-so-much Fun Wed, 14 Mar 2012 09:00:24 -0400 Julieanne
<![CDATA[How to Tell If Your Shrink Sucks (And Then Fire Them)]]>

I’ve had just about as many psychologists, shrinks and guidance counselors as I have had sexual partners … and all I’ll say to that is: I’ve had more than four and less than 70. And some of them have sucked.

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http://www.xojane.com/relationships/when-tough-love-becomes-how-fire-your-shrink http://www.xojane.com/relationships/when-tough-love-becomes-how-fire-your-shrink Relationships Tue, 13 Mar 2012 14:00:30 -0400 Randi
<![CDATA[It Happened to Me: You Guys Hurt My Stupid F*cking Feelings]]>

Sometimes I feel like you're all supportive and open... except when it comes to "Daisy." *meow meow meow*

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http://www.xojane.com/relationships/you-hurt-my-feelings http://www.xojane.com/relationships/you-hurt-my-feelings Relationships Fri, 10 Feb 2012 09:00:20 -0500 Daisy