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Shakespeare Helped Me Write My Porn, And He Can Help You Too

Kate Conway — Mon, 18 Mar 2013 14:00:00 -0400

For some reason, I just discovered that the Google Docs demo gives the impression that six famous authors are collaborating with you on your masterwork. Naturally, I used it for NC-17 rated purposes.

It Happened To Me Contest Entry: I Dated A Porn Addict

IHTM CONTESTANT — Thu, 14 Mar 2013 10:00:00 -0400

I guess I thought that a porn addict would be into sex. Little did I know that it is often impossible for porn addicts to achieve orgasm during real-life sex.

A New Survey Breaks Down Top Porn Search Terms State by State, and I Think I've Found My New Conversational Icebreaker

Mandy — Tue, 12 Mar 2013 16:00:00 -0400

I always say if you want to know the darkest corners of someone's soul you need to know what they search for on porn sites. This creepy new survey reveals all -- state by state and country by country.

Have You Ever Watched Porn With Your S.O.? It’s Logistically Difficult, No?

Rebecca Santiago — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 09:00:00 -0500

I’m busy trying to fix my face into an expression that could read as either horny or wary, because if he likes it, I don’t want to make him feel gross about it, and if he doesn’t, I don’t want him to think I’m into it, god, no.

Tales of Kink.Com: Speaking Up In Light of Their CEO's Recent Arrest

Maggie Mayhem — Wed, 13 Feb 2013 16:00:00 -0500

I used to look at the pride flags on top of the armory and see it as a grand victory. But I’ve long since been ashamed of myself for what I haven’t spoken up about inside those walls.

It Happened To Me: I Watched Porn With My Dad When I Was A Kid

Desi — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 10:00:00 -0500

It almost seemed like my dad was doing the porn equivalent of making a kid smoke a ton of cigarettes as a punishment for catching them smoke, desensitizing me to the thrill of watching porn.

A Man Posted My Vagina on the Internet and I'm Kind of OK With It

Nikki Yeager — Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:00:00 -0500

If any of you happen to visit submityourex.com in the future and see a young vagina on display, I hope it’s mine. And I hope you thoroughly enjoy it.

Please Stop Trying To Make Ladyporn Happen

Katie J. M. Baker of Jezebel — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 17:00:00 -0500

Blanket statements about what women currently and historically jill off to are getting really old.

Liking Porn And Loving Women: My Day As An Ethical Porn Star

Ezra Crane — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 14:00:00 -0500

Kink.com claims that they go out of their way to respect model’s boundaries and ensure their safety during performances. I decided to find out firsthand.

So, How Do You Know If You Have A "Pretty" One?

India-Jewel — Wed, 26 Dec 2012 11:30:00 -0500

THIS is the bullshit that’s been occupying my mind all damn day.

What I Learned From Half a Decade Working In Porno Mags

Lynsey G — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 14:00:00 -0500

I thought reviewing porn as a young, educated, fairly vanilla woman would be exciting. Not glamorous, exactly, but certainly more Bohemian than waiting tables.

10 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Porn

Roger Barnett of The Good Men Project — Tue, 27 Nov 2012 17:00:00 -0500

I wish someone had sat down with me when I was in my early teens and had a frank chat about pornography and sex.

It Happened to me: I'm a Fat Porn Star (And a Role Model)

Kelly Shibari — Fri, 16 Nov 2012 09:00:00 -0500

Before I started doing porn at age 34, the only fat women I'd seen in any semi-nude pose (other than in museums) were those "Wish you were here" postcards with the 500lb woman in a bikini.

The xoJane JAMES DEEN Interview: Free Speech, Condoms and Cheeseburger Erotica

Julieanne — Fri, 09 Nov 2012 12:00:00 -0500

Do not censor this man's penis.

Why I Like Facials (The Dirty Kind)

Emily — Tue, 28 Aug 2012 14:00:00 -0400

My orgasms are a politics-free zone.

5 Signs You’re Dating a Sex Addict

Lisa Kirchner — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 13:30:18 -0400

Sex addicts prey on others with low self-esteem. The charm and attention acts as a salve to someone who’s been sexually, verbally or physically abused, but ultimately will reaffirm negative image patterns.

Do You Really Want Your Porn to Look More Like You?

Julieanne — Wed, 25 Jul 2012 14:00:22 -0400

I just want my porn to feature women who are confident, self-aware, and get off. I realize this is a lot to ask.

Why I Wince Through Hollywood Sex Scenes and Not Porn

Sarah Woolley — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 10:00:23 -0400

I don’t want to read about another crying actress attached to a fake penis.

"After Porn Ends:" If You Hate Porn, Don't Make It So Hard to Quit

Emily — Wed, 23 May 2012 09:30:15 -0400

The documentary "After Porn Ends" follows the stories of 12 different former porn stars as they move into the next stage of their lives.

I've Never Watched Porn

Diane Shipley — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 13:00:32 -0400

The idea of getting a close-up of a stranger’s penis, butthole or labia sounds more like training for a medical exam than a turn-on.