Men - xoJane

As a Therapist Working With Women, I Constantly Have to Be The "Cinderella Slayer"

Brandy Dunn — Thu, 02 May 2013 12:30:00 -0400

Ladies, there is no Knight in Shining Armor.

What I Learned From Lurking Online Dating Sites: Men Are Bitter, Too

Alisha Tillery — Thu, 28 Mar 2013 10:00:00 -0400

With every profile I scanned, one thing became abundantly clear: Men are bitter. As hell.

I’m Sexually Attracted To A Man I Knew As A Boy And I Don’t Feel That Dirty About It

Shayla — Tue, 12 Mar 2013 17:00:00 -0400

Wanting to bone a guy I’ve seen trick or treating? That was a bit too pervy even for me.

I’ve Been Single For Seven Years And I Can't Figure Out Why

Marci — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 14:00:00 -0500

I’m trying to figure out why I’ve been alone this long, because I’m kind of sick of it. (And everyone at xoJane is sick of hearing about it.)

I Was A Castrating Bitch On Valentine's Day -- And It Kind Of All Worked Out

Mandy — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 16:00:00 -0500

Remember that whole song and dance about me being the worst at dating? Yeah, well. Here you go.

On “Feminist” Men Who Treat Women Like Crap

Anna Latimer — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 14:00:00 -0500

We need to talk about the men who claim to be feminists in public, but treat women like crap in private.

Guy Talk: Men Don't Want To Have Sex All The Time

Dan Solomon — Fri, 25 Jan 2013 14:30:00 -0500

Here is a confession: I am a dude, and sometimes I don’t want to have sex. For good reasons, or no reasons at all. It just depends.

Why You Should Always, Always Date 3 Guys At Once

Jessica Delfino — Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:00:00 -0500

Oprah says when you find a pair of shoes you like, buy “A pair and a spare.” I tell my girlfriends to apply that method to the men whom they meet.

YOUR BOYFRIEND SHOULD SMELL LIKE ME: 3 Scents That Will Make You Love Your Man More

Tynan Sinks — Wed, 05 Dec 2012 14:30:00 -0500

I have spent a whole lot of time sniffing dudes.

I Am a Highly Sensitive Man

Rick Belden of The Good Men Project — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 10:30:00 -0500

I’m not abnormal. There’s nothing wrong with me. I’m not a weakling, a wimp, or a pussy.

Why Women's Magazines Need To Stop Using Me As The Voice Of All Men

Stuart Heritage — Tue, 20 Nov 2012 13:30:00 -0500

I write The Man Page. The page that tells women what men think.

I Sobbed on My Birthday As My Friend Told Me She Wasn't Sure If I Am a Good Person, Lost My New Place and Got Blown Off By A Guy

Mandy — Thu, 25 Oct 2012 13:00:00 -0400

I had a weird birthday. Instead of cake, I sobbed in some nachos, almost ruined a friendship and wore sexy skivvies no one saw.

Why I Don't Need A Man in My Life Who Puts Me Down -- and Why Feeling Like Someone is On My Side is Pretty Much Everything

Mandy — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 14:00:00 -0400

I understand what a man really means when he says, "Why do you put yourself out there?" He means, "I don't like it when you put yourself out there."

He Should Love You More & Other Problematic Advice

Shahida Muhammad of Clutch — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 12:30:00 -0400

Rihanna's grandmother told her she should marry “someone who loves you more than you love him.”

Esquire Journalist Declares the Patriarchy Safe for All

s.e. smith — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 14:30:17 -0400

Those ladies may delude themselves into thinking they have an equal place in society, but of course men will keep them where they belong.

Rebound: The Condom, My Protector and Foe

Anonymous — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 14:00:22 -0400

The erotic adventures of Anonymous Single Guy continue.

Rebound: The Erotic Adventures of a Newly Single Guy

Anonymous — Tue, 03 Apr 2012 13:00:25 -0400

Single Guy is a newly unattached 30-something living in New York City. These are his real journal entries.

The Hunger Games Ruined Men For Me (And Other Dramatic Assertions)

Sarah La Due — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 09:00:22 -0500

My heart was aching for Peeta, I realized. My entire body felt emotionally anxious because of how much I loved his character.

When Boys Who Love Pot Also Love You

Molly K — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 10:00:17 -0500

Exclusively dating stoners is not a terrifying problem. But it IS confusing.

No Beauty Mistake Has Ever Turned a Man Off

Emily — Thu, 01 Mar 2012 15:40:54 -0500

Women look sexy and feel sexy when they're being themselves. If a dude is turned off by my bold lip, wait until he gets a load of my bold personality.