Kink - xoJane

On Abuse Within Kink (Or This One Time Some Really Bad Stuff Happened To Me)

Jessica Wakeman of The Frisky — Fri, 15 Mar 2013 14:30:00 -0400

Recently I went home with a kinky man after our first date. The experience phased in and out of being consensual throughout the night. I distinctly left his apartment feeling violated and I continued to feel violated for several days after.

My Sexual Dealbreaker: I Dumped A Guy Because He Was In A Gang-Bang With An 18-Year-Old Girl

Alice H — Thu, 07 Feb 2013 13:00:00 -0500

She was legally an adult. It was clearly consensual. Yet I absolutely could not get over it.

It Happened To Me Contest Entry: I Was A Human Bacon Buffet Table

IHTM CONTESTANT — Wed, 06 Feb 2013 11:30:00 -0500

Over the years, I have obtained bacon-flavored lip-gloss, bacon imprinted band-aids, bacon salt, bacon-flavored popcorn, a talking plush bacon, and bacon toothpaste. It was probably just inevitable that I'd eventually become a naked bacon buffet table.

SEX SHOP DOS AND DON'TS

Squeamish Kate — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 14:30:23 -0400

...sex boutiques! They're called sex boutiques!

Queer Sex Advice for Straight Girls: Introducing Some Flavor into a Vanilla Relationship

Avory — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 13:00:35 -0400

"How do you lead a partner who maybe a little embarrassed by their lack of experience (because they're a dude and dudes are supposed to know, right?) into the kinky garden you'd prefer to play in?"

I Would Do Anything (Sexually) For Love

Emily — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 13:00:13 -0500

Yes, including that.

It Happened to Me: I Had a Golden Shower

Kerry Cohen — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 09:00:10 -0500

At the very beginning of what I now know was a mid-life crisis, I let a guy pee on me.

8 Essential Items To Keep in Your Terribly Sexy Adult Lady Nightstand

Emily — Wed, 24 Aug 2011 14:06:15 -0400

You can tell a lot about a woman from her drawer, which is why I've spent years crafting mine into its current, perfectly curated state.