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		<title>Insecurity - xoJane</title>
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				<title><![CDATA[I Thought A High Waisted Bikini Would Give Me More Body Confidence But It’s Doing The Opposite]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/5_13_13%20kelly%20bikini%20photo1.JPG" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>My high-waisted bikini is making me feel worse about my shape and I want to set it on fire. Or at least angrily return it.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/clothes/i-thought-a-high-waisted-bikini-would-give-me-more-confidence-but-its-doing-the-opposite">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/clothes/i-thought-a-high-waisted-bikini-would-give-me-more-confidence-but-its-doing-the-opposite</link>
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				<category>Clothes</category>
				<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 17:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kelly Dougher</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[I Quit Therapy Because My Therapist Fell Asleep While I Was Crying]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/fields/marci_therapy.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I gave up on therapy over a decade ago because I apparently bore psychologists to sleep with my problems.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-therapist-fell-asleep-while-i-was-crying">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-therapist-fell-asleep-while-i-was-crying</link>
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				<category>Issues</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marci</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened To Me Contest Entry: I Thought I Was Polyamorous, But Maybe I'm Just Insecure]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/fields/PoliticsOfCloseness.jpeg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I’ve been seeking self-esteem, affection, and some semblance of a family structure through a polyamorous lifestyle.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-contest-entry-i-thought-i-was-polyamorous-but-maybe-im-just-insecure">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-contest-entry-i-thought-i-was-polyamorous-but-maybe-im-just-insecure</link>
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				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2013 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>IHTM CONTESTANT</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[I'm An Open Book To You; Why Confessional Blogging?]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/sites/default/files/imagecache/article_full_width/field_image_attachments/article/CasualFriday1.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>There seems to be something about the way brains are organized that puts the handy mental thesaurus on the same shelf as the box of self-doubt you reach for when you have to top the bowl of "why did I think writing for a living was a good idea?" that you&#039;re having for dinner.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/im-open-book-you">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/im-open-book-you</link>
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				<category>Relationships</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 15:00:24 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marianne</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[No, I Can't Spend the Night, Because My Snoring Is Ruining My Love Life]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/sites/default/files/imagecache/article_full_width/field_image_attachments/article/julieanne%2520snores.JPG" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I don&#039;t always snore, I&#039;m told, but when I do, I sound like I&#039;m trying to dislodge a sock from my deep within my lungs over AM radio.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/sex/i-wont-sleep-over-because-i-snore-old-man">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/sex/i-wont-sleep-over-because-i-snore-old-man</link>
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				<category>Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love</category>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 10:00:11 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Julieanne</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[I Feel Good About My Face: My Week of Listening to You]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/sites/default/files/imagecache/article_full_width/field_image_attachments/article/photo%252828%2529.JPG" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>You guys told me to wear less makeup. I tried it, and you were totally right. How else can you run my life?</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/beauty/i-feel-bad-about-my-face-makeup-update">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/beauty/i-feel-bad-about-my-face-makeup-update</link>
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				<category>Beauty</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 14:02:23 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[2 Curmudgeons, 1 House -- Why The Hubby Needs to Back off Patti Smith]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/sites/default/files/imagecache/article_full_width/field_image_attachments/article/kids2.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I wish my husband and I could like and hate all the same things, or at least that he would shut about it. </p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/sex/2-curmudgeons-1-house">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/sex/2-curmudgeons-1-house</link>
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				<category>Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love</category>
				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2011 15:02:59 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Rachel_1</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[I'm the Worst: I Can't Leave the House Without Makeup]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/sites/default/files/imagecache/article_half_width/field_image_attachments/article/makeupme_0.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I blame Oklahoma. </p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/beauty/im-worst-i-cant-leave-house-without-makeup">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/beauty/im-worst-i-cant-leave-house-without-makeup</link>
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				<category>Beauty</category>
				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 10:02:20 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
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