Fantasies - xoJane

Has A Fantasy Ever Ruined Your Relationship? (AHEM, THREESOMES)

Rebecca Santiago — Mon, 18 Mar 2013 12:00:00 -0400

The hot second you indicate to a dude that you think threesomes are sexy and might, in the absolute RIGHTEST of right circumstances, be open to maybe sort of VAGUELY considering having one or something like one, they will never, ever shut up about it.

Have You Ever Watched Porn With Your S.O.? It’s Logistically Difficult, No?

Rebecca Santiago — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 09:00:00 -0500

I’m busy trying to fix my face into an expression that could read as either horny or wary, because if he likes it, I don’t want to make him feel gross about it, and if he doesn’t, I don’t want him to think I’m into it, god, no.

I Will Believe Anything You Tell Me About Exercise

Rebecca — Wed, 06 Feb 2013 18:00:00 -0500

When I read recently that running on a treadmill can make you fat, it was a quiet shock to the guts like the one I get when I finish eating a personal pizza and discover that I've eaten nine servings in under five minutes.

I've Been Going to Some Dark Sexual Places Lately in Fantasy -- And It's Bumming Me Out

Mandy — Tue, 20 Nov 2012 11:00:00 -0500

I'm so sick of my sex brain. I want a new one.

5 Pretty Effed-Up But Real Things I Actually Fantasize About

Emily — Tue, 06 Nov 2012 15:08:00 -0500

I'm trying to remember what women did back before "50 Shades of Grey" taught us how to fantasize.

Why I Like Facials (The Dirty Kind)

Emily — Tue, 28 Aug 2012 14:00:00 -0400

My orgasms are a politics-free zone.

I Can't Stop Hate-Masturbating to Paul Ryan

Mandy — Tue, 14 Aug 2012 11:00:27 -0400

And I really, really, really hate him, you guys.

Analyze: My Transgressive Sex Fantasies Are Either About My Actual Husband or No-Touch Clintonian Monogamy

Rachel_1 — Fri, 25 May 2012 09:30:27 -0400

If you are related to me by blood or marriage, this isn't for you. Otherwise, enjoy the details of my real life sex fantasies!

If You Get a Chance to Sleep With Your Life-Long Crush, Go For It

Emily — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 14:30:07 -0500

I did, and it was awesome!

Do You Pay for Porn?

Emily — Fri, 11 Nov 2011 12:05:57 -0500

Every part of my sexual life philosophy until this point has hinged on one fundamental belief: that as a woman, getting laid will always be super easy, which means I shouldn't have to spend any time, effort or money making it happen.

I'll Try Anything Once: Dr. Keith Ablow's 5 Ways to Put the X Back in Married Sex

Rachel_1 — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 15:02:09 -0400

My marriage is more of a Fritz-The-Cat-X than a Last-Tango-In-Paris-X, by choice and nature, but I’m all for adult education.