Crushes - xoJane

You Say Tomato, I Say F*ck Old Guys: I Support Your Weird Celebrity Crush

Rebecca — Mon, 13 May 2013 10:00:00 -0400

While my peers swooned over the New Kids, I was wondering just how to go about contacting James Caan -- in my pants.

Eating Big Meals on Dates is 100% The Sexxx: Why We All Need to Date Anthony Bourdain

Natalie — Mon, 11 Mar 2013 12:30:00 -0400

Be still my beating vagina.

Notes On My First Crush

Helena — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 16:30:00 -0500

As the only black kid. On. The. Entire. Island of Santa Catalina. I didn’t have much by way of prospects.

Confessions of a Former Romantic Obsessive

Emily V Gordon — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 09:00:34 -0400

It recently occurred to me that perhaps one of the reasons some women are constantly focused on “snagging a man” is that it frees up some of our brain space.

Nostalgia Reality Check: 1979 Coming-of-Age Classic, LITTLE DARLINGS

Rachel_1 — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 18:00:32 -0500

Girl-centric summer camp classic "Little Darlings" was a movie I held religiously close to my heart as a preteen, but how would it look to an almost 39-year-old?

My New Favorite Tumblr for You to Love & Contribute to: HJTM

Rachel_1 — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 17:00:12 -0500

Hand Job Time Machine. If you had one, to whom would you give one? Inspired Sex genius, Heather Weil has a Tumblr full of ideas to get you started. (NSFW-ish photo inside.)

If You Get a Chance to Sleep With Your Life-Long Crush, Go For It

Emily — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 14:30:07 -0500

I did, and it was awesome!

I Get Crushes On Books

Jess — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 15:00:13 -0500

Literary obsession is a lot like social engagement, only it’s more consuming and energizing and it takes place inside your head where you don’t have to deal with human people at all.

How an Oxford Student Ruined My Semester Abroad

Jessica — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 10:00:14 -0400

It was one of my first disappointments with men, which like that black coffee, became easier and easier to swallow until they were pretty much what I expected.

I Love You, Willie Aames

Emily — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 12:00:08 -0400

Some crushes you just can't explain.

Literary Crush: Rob Sheffield

Emily — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 15:02:13 -0400

This pop culture memoirist loves like a Midwesterner, and reminds me that I once did, too.