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It Happened To Me: I Met my Boyfriend On Ashley Madison

Andi Chinaski — Thu, 16 May 2013 11:00:00 -0400

Since the quest for a conventional relationship was clearly not working out for me, I decided in a moment of low self-worth, that I was going to actively seek out married men.

It Happened to Me: I Cheated On My Wife With Someone At Work And I Hate Myself For It

Anonymous — Fri, 10 May 2013 10:30:00 -0400

I’ve been happily married for five years and the sex with my wife is great, I just gave into an impulse.

UNPOPULAR OPINION: I'm The Woman Who Slept With Your Husband (And I'm Not Sorry)

Noemi — Thu, 09 May 2013 12:30:00 -0400

I wasn’t cheating on you, I was cheating on a system which is fake and outdated.

My LIfe Was Once Devastated by Infidelity and I Still Don't Believe in Blaming the Other Woman

Emily — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 14:00:00 -0400

Jezebel recently published the name and photos of the "woman who broke up Kim Gordon and Thurston Moore." I don't buy that.

I'm The Girl Who Slept With Your Boyfriend

Alicia Hamilton — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 17:00:00 -0400

Being in love isn’t an option. You wish it was and you would love to say that your relationships could last more then a night, a week, a month, a year but that’s not your reality.

I Read My Boyfriend's Journal and I Wasn't Prepared For What It Told Me

Tess Eyrich — Tue, 16 Apr 2013 12:00:00 -0400

You have to understand that I wasn’t always like this.

I Troll For Boyfriends On A Website For Married People Looking For Affairs

Anonymous — Wed, 27 Feb 2013 11:00:00 -0500

I am in a 17-year-old marriage which is practically sexless. I wish I could blame this on my husband, but the truth is…it’s my fault.

I Dated A Conman And Went on The Today Show and 20/20 to Discuss It

Andie Nash — Tue, 26 Feb 2013 12:00:00 -0500

In March 2011, Simon was found guilty of fraud and sentenced to 30 months in jail. The British tabloids picked up on the story and went wild with the tale of “Simon the love rat.”

It Happened To Me Contest Entry: I Had An Affair With A Married Man And Was Caught By His Wife And A Camcorder.

IHTM CONTESTANT — Tue, 05 Feb 2013 14:30:00 -0500

I looked directly at her. I saw the outline of her tiny frame, but my eyes could only focus on one thing: the red light emanating from the camcorder.

IT HAPPENED TO ME: I Stole Someone Else's Boyfriend and I'm Not Sorry

Anonymous — Fri, 14 Dec 2012 15:30:00 -0500

One thing that happens when you move to the front seat from the passenger is that it leaves a space that's just waiting to be filled.

Here's What Really Goes Down at a Bachelor Party, From a Former Party Bus Hostess

Nichole McKenzie — Wed, 05 Dec 2012 14:00:00 -0500

The bachelor isn't out to cheat, but often times his married friends are.

My Ex Was The Best Lover I've Ever Had Which is Why I'm Still Doing Him

Anonymous — Tue, 13 Nov 2012 12:00:00 -0500

I am not going to settle for the fumblings, premature ejaculations and disappointments of inexperienced men that I have encountered numerous times in the past. At 27, I am too old for that shit.

Ashley Madison's New Mitt Romney Ad (Revealed Exclusively on xo) Reminds Me Of That Time I Almost Took a Job There

Mandy — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 16:45:00 -0400

Do you like conflicts of interest? I hope so, because I have a doozy for you. Not only did I make an awful personal choice and have an affair with a married man, I also collaborated with Noel Biderman, the owner of Avid Life Media on a book, a TV show and a potential job. Thankfully, none of those three things came to pass. Here’s my cringey story.

It Happened to Me: I Had An Emotional Affair

Anonymous — Mon, 16 Jul 2012 12:00:24 -0400

I had a lengthy emotional affair that involved copious amounts of text messaging and elbow rubbing. 

I Was a Childhood Cheater But I'm Over It Now

Daisy — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 17:00:26 -0400

As a child, I cheated at Battleship. I also stole Monopoly money when no one was looking, “miscounted” spaces so I would climb up a ladder instead of sliding down a shoot, and opened my eyes during Marco Polo.

It Happened To Me: I Had a 5-Year Affair With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

Anonymous — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 14:15:00 -0400

As my friendship with Alex grew, I was constantly overwhelmed with guilt about the secret I was keeping from her.

I Hate Condoms (But Not For The Same Reasons Everyone Else Does)

Sari Botton — Mon, 18 Jun 2012 11:00:29 -0400

In almost every one of my relationships, at some point a condom showed up where it shouldn’t have.

Is It Ever OK To Cheat?

Rebecca Holman — Thu, 14 Jun 2012 17:00:18 -0400

Half of all Brits think affairs are an acceptable part of relationships in certain circumstances. What are these "certain circumstances"? How can I get a cheating free pass?

I Don't Believe in Cheating, But I Did It Anyway

Anonymous — Wed, 13 Jun 2012 10:00:22 -0400

I don’t like women purposely hurting other women.We need to stick together. But like I said: I did it anyway.

Who's Your Hall Pass?

Julie — Fri, 18 May 2012 09:30:25 -0400

True story: I almost got it on with a famous rapper.