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		<title>Best friends - xoJane</title>
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				<title><![CDATA[Women And Men CAN Be Just Friends: I Know For A Fact That My Best Friend Brian Does Not Want To F@#% Me]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/fields/Olgaandbrianjustfriends.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>3 years (and going) of friendship and helping each other get laid by other people.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/sex/women-and-men-can-be-just-friends-i-know-for-a-fact-that-my-best-friend-brian-does-not-want-to-fuck-me">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/sex/women-and-men-can-be-just-friends-i-know-for-a-fact-that-my-best-friend-brian-does-not-want-to-fuck-me</link>
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				<category>Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Olga</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened To Me: My Best Friend Moved Away, Got Married, And Became A New Person –- And Now We Barely Speak]]></title>
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    				<p>Ending a tight friendship as an adult is similar to ending a romantic relationship in that it’s a major life change.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/my-best-friend-moved-away-got-married-and-became-a-new-person-and-now-we-barely-speak">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/my-best-friend-moved-away-got-married-and-became-a-new-person-and-now-we-barely-speak</link>
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				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2013 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened To Me: My First Love Was Hit By A Drunk Driver And Is Now Quadriplegic ]]></title>
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    				<p>I don&#039;t know if I&#039;m ready to see the man I&#039;ve loved, looked up to and idolized unable to put his hand on my thigh or pick up a guitar.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/drunk-driving-quadriplegia">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/drunk-driving-quadriplegia</link>
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				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Mon, 08 Apr 2013 17:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Felicia Rose</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened To Me Contest Entry: My Best Friend Of 15 Years Came Out And It Shattered My World]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/fields/Chris%20and%20I%20Today.jpeg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p> I was also scared of what this meant for my worldview. The one structured around a religious dogma that assured me homosexuality was always wrong and gay people needed to be “cured.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-contest-entry-my-best-friend-of-15-years-came-out-and-it-shattered-my-world">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-contest-entry-my-best-friend-of-15-years-came-out-and-it-shattered-my-world</link>
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				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Mar 2013 15:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>IHTM CONTESTANT</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[Would You Go To Therapy With Your Best Friend?]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/40664_534205900378_3763964_n.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>When I read recently about women in long term friendships going through therapy to work on their relationship, it didn’t strike me as odd at all, looking back on the tearful mediated sessions between my still best friend and myself in the wake of one injury or another we had done.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/issues/best-friends-therapy">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/issues/best-friends-therapy</link>
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				<category>Issues</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Mar 2013 13:30:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened To Me Contest Entry: My Best Friend Committed Suicide ]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/ADallesandroHS.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>As the “It Gets Better” campaign becomes a movement, my feelings are bittersweet. Would Rone have taken solace in messages of hope from others? </p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-contest-entry-my-best-friend-committed-suicide">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-contest-entry-my-best-friend-committed-suicide</link>
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				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:30:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>IHTM CONTESTANT</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[Do This Don't: Get Matching Tattoos]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/010213_jessandsydoncouch.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>Getting a matching tattoo with Sydney felt like a completely reasonable commitment.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/fun/do-this-dont-get-matching-tattoos">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/fun/do-this-dont-get-matching-tattoos</link>
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				<category>Fun</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2013 14:30:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jessie Nicole</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[Loner, Triad, Or Pack Member: What's Your Friendship Style?]]></title>
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    				<p>For all the discussions we have about romantic monogamy and polyamory and everything in between, I don’t think we talk enough about how those same dynamics translate to friendships.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/loner-triad-or-pack-member-whats-your-friendship-style">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/loner-triad-or-pack-member-whats-your-friendship-style</link>
				<guid>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/loner-triad-or-pack-member-whats-your-friendship-style</guid>
				<category>Relationships</category>
				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 13:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kate Conway</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened to Me: I Don't Have a Best Friend]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/fields/12-11-12-ThreeLibras.jpeg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I meet a nice girl or boy. We hit it off, and I get friend-butterflies (frienderflies!) and begin to think, "Could this be it? Could this be my new best friend??" But then, casually, s/he will drop the best friend bomb.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/the-plight-of-the-best-friendless">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/the-plight-of-the-best-friendless</link>
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				<category>Relationships</category>
				<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2012 16:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sarah Brown</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[I Can’t Afford My Friends’ Weddings]]></title>
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    				<p>								<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/fields/Allison_7-190x130.jpeg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p> I’m trying to accept my fate: While I love participating in and attending my best friends’ weddings, I just can’t afford it.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-cant-afford-my-friends-weddings">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-cant-afford-my-friends-weddings</link>
				<guid>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-cant-afford-my-friends-weddings</guid>
				<category>Relationships</category>
				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Aug 2012 16:30:00 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jane Alyson of LearnVest</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened to Me: I Tried To Have Sex With My Gay Male Best Friend]]></title>
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    				<p>Nick and I put our shoes on in the foyer and I asked him if I could sleep over because the thought of sleeping next to him was nicer than sleeping alone.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-i-tried-have-sex-my-gay-male-best-friend">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-i-tried-have-sex-my-gay-male-best-friend</link>
				<guid>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-i-tried-have-sex-my-gay-male-best-friend</guid>
				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2012 16:00:18 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristina Anne Gylling</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[I'm Not Crazy! My "Best Friend" Tried to Ruin My Wedding]]></title>
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    				<p>																	<img src="http://www.xojane.com/files/styles/150_100/public/sites/default/files/imagecache/article_full_width/field_image_attachments/article/showerphoto.jpg" style="" width="150"/>
			
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    				<p>I&#039;m not sure why I was shocked, let alone hurt, when a girl I had known for 28 years tried to sabotage my wedding. It was right in line with all the other messed up things she had done to me over the  years. </p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/it-happened-me-my-best-friend-tried-ruin-my-wedding-0">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/it-happened-me-my-best-friend-tried-ruin-my-wedding-0</link>
				<guid>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/it-happened-me-my-best-friend-tried-ruin-my-wedding-0</guid>
				<category>Relationships</category>
				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 11:00:36 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[It Happened to Me: I Got Kicked Out of High School]]></title>
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    				<p>Free life lesson: Don&#039;t get stoned at boarding school and tell everyone.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-i-got-kicked-out-high-school">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-i-got-kicked-out-high-school</link>
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				<category>It Happened To Me</category>
				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 15:00:22 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Daisy</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[Should I Refuse To Be A Bridesmaid?]]></title>
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    				<p>I indulged my best pal’s request. But I don’t think I should ever do this again.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/can-you-refuse-be-bridesmaid">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/can-you-refuse-be-bridesmaid</link>
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				<category>Relationships</category>
				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 10:00:10 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brittany</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[He Said, She Said: "I Wish You Would Dress Like Whoopi Goldberg" Edition]]></title>
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    				<p>Eliot and Jackie have strong opinions about whether or not friends do pantsuits to friends.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/he-said-she-said-i-wish-you-would-dress-whoopi-edition">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/relationships/he-said-she-said-i-wish-you-would-dress-whoopi-edition</link>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 17:00:15 -0500</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eliot</dc:creator>
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				<title><![CDATA[Day Drinking for Dummies. And Also You.]]></title>
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    				<p>My best friend and Day Drinking cohort is moving to New York City. This is my way of saying goodbye.</p>
    				<p><a href="http://www.xojane.com/sports/day-drinking-dummies-and-also-you">read more</a></p>
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				<link>http://www.xojane.com/sports/day-drinking-dummies-and-also-you</link>
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				<category>Sports</category>
				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 15:00:23 -0400</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Daisy</dc:creator>
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