Lela - xoJane http://www.xojane.com/author/lela/allArticles en Tue, 15 Nov 2011 09:00:11 -0500 <![CDATA[My Short Marriage Wasn't Funny and Neither Is Kim Kardashian's ]]>

My ex was a disaster, and together we were a disaster, but for me, the divorce, not the marriage, is the real disaster. It always is.

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]]> http://www.xojane.com/sex/my-divorce-wasnt-funny-and-neither-kim-kardashians http://www.xojane.com/sex/my-divorce-wasnt-funny-and-neither-kim-kardashians Sex, Sex, Sex ... and Love Tue, 15 Nov 2011 09:00:11 -0500 Lela <![CDATA[It Happened to Me: My Boyfriend Died]]>

Probably the most disconcerting thing about Greg’s death was how fast I was expected to recover from it. Because, after all, he was “just a boyfriend.”

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]]> http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-my-boyfriend-died http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-me-my-boyfriend-died It Happened To Me Wed, 17 Aug 2011 15:07:18 -0400 Lela