Bolaji - xoJane

Say Something Nice: Bolaji

Bolaji — Wed, 29 Feb 2012 12:45:15 -0500

Sh*t Asian Mothers in Law Say to their Black Daughters in Law

Bolaji — Tue, 10 Jan 2012 14:00:10 -0500

My daughters have taken to calling one of their Barbies "Black Girl." Here's how I'm handling it.

I'm Much Older Than My Husband

Bolaji — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:00:14 -0500

Age ain't nothin' but a number, right?

I Have a "Weird" Name and So Do My Kids -- Get Over It

Bolaji — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 15:00:08 -0500

By choosing these names for our children, my husband and I are setting ourselves up to be the object of ridicule on parenting websites where the biggest joke is the “unfortunate” child who has been “saddled” with a “yoonique” name.

No I’m Not Going to STFU About My AMAAAAAAZING Kid, And If You Have Them, Neither Should You

Bolaji — Fri, 02 Dec 2011 13:00:09 -0500

Adults with children cannot undo the fact that they have children. And no amount of conversation modification is ever going to change that.

Parents and Porn Stars, What Say You?

Bolaji — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 16:00:09 -0500

Sasha Grey reads to kids, and everybody has an opinion about it. Who's right?

Motherhood, Do We Have An Image Problem?

Bolaji — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:00:10 -0500

How do we stop ourselves from participating in the full contact sport of Mother Judgment?

Kids, Character Parties, and the Politics of So-Called Pink Perfection

Bolaji — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 11:00:59 -0400

I have strong, highly opinionated views and mixed feelings about Disney, princess-culture, image-culture and body politics. Forget all of that whilst I proceed to tell you how I succumbed to Awesome Marketing and held three Disney parties for my two girls.