Alli - xoJane

Surprise! I'm Not A Booth Babe

Alli — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 13:00:24 -0400

I’d love to see more women at each con I attend. I just want them to be there as actual attendees or developers, not human props.

Weddings & The Case for Covering Up

Alli — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 18:00:15 -0500

A few people I know have balked at the idea of me covering up my tattoos for a wedding. But this is my sister - my one and only - and likely the last time I'll ever do bridesmaid duties for anyone.

Is There Something Unsexy About Playing Video Games?

Alli — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 17:00:16 -0500

While I'm seriously not the best person to ask for dating advice, I have to wonder: is a video game date really that unsexy?

Make Your P$@&y a Peacock! The Newest WTF Grooming Trend

Alli — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 18:00:14 -0500

Heyo ladies -- merkins are back in style -- like whoa!

Tattoo Etiquette 101 -- How To Appreciate My Body Art Without Making Me Hate You

Alli — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 09:00:07 -0500

Some of what follows may seem nasty, aggressive, even dick-headed or preachy. Just so we’re clear -- it’s meant to be. I’m fed up.

Help! I Don’t Know What To Call The Person With Whom I Am Romantically Involved

Alli — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 13:00:13 -0500

Am I overthinking this? There has to be something better than "boyfriend" for those of us past the age of 20.

Queer, Feminist, Anti-Racist PORN?! It’s Not a Contradiction, It’s An Actual (Awesome) Thing

Alli — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 15:00:10 -0500

I don’t know about you, but until adulthood I had no idea there was such a thing as progressive porn.

What's With Everyone Taking Pictures of their Food These Days?

Alli — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 12:01:45 -0500

It seems I can rarely enjoy a meal out with friends without someone whipping out a camera to photograph their meal.

It Happened To Me: Burlesque Gave Me My Groove Back

Alli — Tue, 25 Oct 2011 09:00:09 -0400

How a great therapist and some very public underpants-dancing reminded me that I am fabulous.