YOU ARE THE ADVICE COLUMNIST: My Boyfriend Will Not Have Sex With Me

I do love him, I won't lie. I just have no clue how to keep going.

May 7, 2014 at 6:30pm | Leave a comment

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I'm 21 and I have been dating my best friend for 11 months (i know its a major cliche) getting to roughly the one year mark and we still have not had sex. We have tried a couple of times, and lead busy lives and etc, etc. On those times we have tried, I had initiated it. Most times we get interrupted, but the times when I kept thinking "VICTORY IS OURS" as soon as he was about to put his member in, he went flaccid... Oh tiny detail I should mention, he is a virgin. I don't know what to do... I do love him, I won't lie. I just have no clue how to keep going. Is it me? He is in his sexual prime of his life, why doesn't he want to just bang me nonstop? Should I end things? Should we take a break? 
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